Anonymous said: Is oral sex more intimate than intercourse?
I think the situation depends on the individual. Oral sex and Intercourse (depending on how you define it) can be equally intimate. It truly depends on the situation, the people, the passion involved, and the actuality of the here and now. Some prefer oral sex while others prefer intercourse. I guess it matters what the dyad prefers, how they act on it, and how they choose to pursue it.
On another note, it seems that maybe both combined could be the most intimate. I do not believe in black and white thinking. In my opinion, love is full of grey areas and we are living in one. Let me know if you have any more questions! Thanks!
Anonymous said: To be honest, I do not last long when being intimate with a girl. In your opinion, is there an amount of time that a guy should be able to last? Is there a specific time that one should feel proud of?
This is a common problem for about 50% of men or so (believe it or not). In reality (not pornographic films), different people have different expections, usually/ based on past experience. With time I find that arousal, lasting longer, etc. lies within the mind body soul connection. The more active, secure, and honest one is with themselves, the better situations turn out (That applies to most things in life). Hope that helped and remember, “Don’t sweat the small stuff.” Thanks for the question!
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Anonymous said: I have an erotic confession I would like to make. I am a straight male. I do not want to have sex with a transsexual, however the porn fascinates me. At times, when there is a really good looking transsexual it can be great. I don't know why I enjoy it. It repulses me in real life. When I am in the comfort of my home alone, I sometimes find it interesting. Do you have any idea why?
That is a good question. I cannot say I have the precise answer you are looking for but I can say the following: The dynamic of a transexual is something that is very unique, interesting, and beautiful in it’s own right. Just because it may intrigue you, cause you to think differently, you are still the same person you were before this situation arose in your life. Life is relative. Hope that helped a little bit. Arousal is a very strange thing. We could all learn more about the subject. It could not hurt.